You do not have to tell someone who is in love with life and deeply connected to themselves and the world around them not to commit murder. They wont.
Anytime I am in a situation where there are pages and pages of rules, it is a sign of disconnection. If it is at work, it is a sign of disconnection from the task at hand, the job or the employees. If it is in a relationship, it is a sign of disconnection from the other person. If it is rules that we are putting on ourselves, it is a sign of disconnection from ourselves.
Instead of laying down more rules, ask yourself, "how did this disconnection come about and how can I get connection back?"